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by: CarefulAXO is notorious for bid promising to get their return rates up. So take everything they say with a grain of salt as we get closer to the end of recruitment. They bid promise almost everyone who is there on pref day and somehow never get caught because PNM's believe them and don't know any better. Follow your heart and don't put someone first just because you think they want you more!!
Comment#2by: Actually
At one time or another EVERY house has been accused of this. Note to PNMS: when someone says "I would love to see you here again," that's a personal opinion, not a bid promise. So don't read too much into it. A bid promise is when the recruitment chair comes up to you, takes you aside and says "I am the recuitment chair and I promise you you will be at the top of our bid list." And that, quite simply, doesn't happen. So just stop with the accusations.
#4by: hey now
by: Enough
If you went to Mizzou you might be better informed. You clearly DO NOT, since there is not a sorority member in Columbia who doesn't have something more important to do right now that comment here.
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by: Stop
The OP is a troll. Not a member of Greek life. They're just trying to stir the pot. Everyone knows the topic isn't true.
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#8by: lol
AXO is all over the comments trying to blame ADPi... sorry but you can't tell girls "I can't wait to be your bid day buddy". That's bid promising. I KNOW it happens because it happened to me and I chose another house (I found it creepy and desperate TBH) but I know several other girls who had similar things happen and ended up not getting a bid the next day or getting a bid to a different house even though AXO was their first pref.
The bottom line is it's just mean, if you care enough about a PNM to invite them to pref and want them in your chapter, why make promises you can't keep? You as an active NEVER know where a PNM is on the bid list unless they're a legacy or you're in charge of recruitment. So why set them up for disappointment?
by: Except it's not
PNMs aren't stupid. They know that some random girl they happen to talk to more than once does not have the power to promise them a bid. And if it happened to you, you should have known better.
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by: @lol
by: lol
If you actually read my post, I clearly said I chose another house. I knew better, but a lot of PNM's might not. But it doesn't matter that "one random girl can't guarantee a bid", it's AGAINST THE RULES to bid promise and they're breaking rules by doing it.
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by: Hon
That's not bid promising. True bid promising comes only from the rush chair. Sorry, but you don't really know what you're talking about. I would guess that at exactly this time last year I must have had five conversations that ended with "I really hope to be your bid day buddy," "Or I can't wait until you're my sister" or "We are such a perfect match." Loved the attention, but I never thought to take their comments seriously.
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by: Adpi
Hey ADPi, you know what's really "desperate?" Spreading lies about your competition on Greek rank the week of recruitment. Get ir together Adpi, this is why your house is falling! Your insecurity is unreal! I can't believe another house would stoop so low on RECRUITMENT week! How mean!
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by: This
Honestly could ADPi be more obvious, it's pathetic
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