social, but no judgement

I would definitely not consider social and judgemental to be mutually exclusive. If anything houses like ADPi and Theta seem to be known for being judgy more so than any of the houses. Tridelt has had a rough couple years but that's due more to changes within the sorority than the personality of their members. I find all the social houses to be more laid back and easy going so I don't think you'll have a problem with any of them!

Pretty much year round the house that seems to be non judgmental and drama free AFTER bid day is gphi. they seem to take so many random girls out of state as well as the sporadic st Louis girls who are mixed in to private and public schools. Its a very weird combo of girls but seems to work well, that is the one group if I could choose out of my house, id like to be a part of, most girls seem so open and they all like to hang out.
PiPhi is always social and accepting of out of town girls. they seem to get a ton of girls from kc, stl 'area' and Chicago suburbs. No bonding problems there, they all like each other and like to go out.
ADpi-Totally random mix of girls-they've totally changed it up the last year. Balanced their smart girls with , no offense, dingy pretty girls. They won't have a problem with recruitment.
Tridelt, Aphi, Zeta, DG-all social-tridelt struggled the past 2 years with their image but they will definitely be back this year. The others will battle over those social girls. Problem will be for aphi for the girls that want to go in to a house with more 'credibility' bc of grades, image, involvement and of course the new house. And WHOEVER suggested it would be a good idea for them to flood these boards should be booted-prob biggest mistake, you don't flood boards when you have documented WORST retention, grades and sisterhood, have proved yourselves to be ridiculously catty with theses boards,inarticulate and immature.