miserable

I've tried. I'm a pledge class officer and have been to every sisterhood event. I honestly just don't respect my sisters. And my big is one of the worst.

With your condescending attitude, it wouldn't surprise me if you are actually one of my sisters. I wouldn't be surprised.

Which is worse? Saying insulting things publicly and calling out your entire sorority or pointing out the obvious: that if you can't make one friend among hundreds of women that you most likely are the problem. I guess I wouldn't want to be friends, either, with someone who never thinks that perhaps she is contributing to the problem. Way to be introspective!

@Hmmm you are so bitter. A group of my sisters all left together for these same reasons. Could we not get along with anyone? Actually, we did, we were considered the popular girls in the sorority. But when there's a huge majority of pettiness surrounding you, no matter how many friends you have it can become not worth your time. (And those other "best friends" we had completely flipped on us when we left, clearly not true friendship.) Can't speak for you OP but chances are you do have girls you connect with, I hear you completely. My suggestion would be to try to go alum early if at all possible (or when it is possible.) Giving up my letters was rough and if I could rush again and be sisters with more genuine girls, I would in a heartbeat. So there is a downside.

Are you really an ex-tridelt or the tridelt hater? If you are for real, I doubt you'd mention your sorority

I left because I wasn't happy and now that they've treated us so poorly for leaving I really don't like them so I don't mind mentioning them lol

Nothing here folks, Just the TriDelt hater spewing more sh it.

Every house is what you make it. With hundreds of members, every sorority offers the potential for lasting friendship. However, return rates matter a lot because they are indicative of the houses that have the best reputations, and those reputations are based on a wide range of factors, including quality of sisterhood, support for academics, beauty of the physical house and, yes, potential to flourish, among others. There is a reason a sorority is considered top tier, and a reason why more women want to join. It's not superficial stuff by any means. And it takes more than one week's effort to become, and stay, a top house.

Thanks for your input Actually. Don't you have an alum meeting to attend ?

I'm finding this a little hard to believe. IF you are the original poster why would you have not identified your sorority right away? Sounds to me like if you need to come to GR to talk or have someone listen to you, and then come back later to identify your supposed house, maybe YOU are the one with the problem. Although I'm not a gphi I agree they put on a great recruitment but I disagree with you about the sisterhood. Having several friends in gphi(some very social and some not so much) I have never heard an experience like yours.. When I originally read your post I had 2 specific sororities in mind-neither being gphi. Maybe with all this recruitment talk you are feeling a little bit threatened by the type of 'show' your real house puts on. Ok, now go pick on tri delt, adpi, piphi and chio. Or are you going to pull another house into the mix? Wow!

Ok this girl here, freeking out about houses getting picked on, get over it. Idk if she's in ADPi but I know ever house has the pettiness described just as much as every house has the good aspects so who knows