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Is anyone else scared of being dropped from your favorite house during rush? Because I've heard stories of girls that "fit" with the personality of the house they loved only to be dropped the next day.

Posted By: Pnm
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yep, as the big move comes closer and i'm getting anxious about everything bama, that crosses my mind a lot. like this sounds awful but i don't belong in a bottom sorority, i feel like i value myself better than that.

By: just a girl
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That is so no the attitude to have going in. What you basically are saying is that you are better than every single girl in a bottom sorority, and that dropping to that level is beneath you. There are girls of every type in the "bottom" sororities, and you are setting yourself up for heartbreak with this mentality. Just remember that there are hundreds of girls each year that get dropped and would have jumped at the chance to be in a "bottom" sorority, don't take your chance for granted.

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by: Really?   

Just an FYI I'm in one of those bottom sororities and we have just as much self respect and class as any of the top ones. We swap with old row fraternities, and get invites to their date parties, and we sure hope we don't get girls as entitled and rude as you in our pledge classes.

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by: i   

Sure as hell hope you get dropped from recruitment all together. Pathetic is what you are.

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by: Pnm   

I actually would consider myself a great candidate for rush, but some of my favorite houses going into recruitment are "bottom" tier. You really shouldn't let rankings effect who you like.

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by: ur an idiot   

What a cow! The tiers are ridiculous and you don't deserve even getting an outhouse on bid day! That is where you really belong. Not among the classy girls in EVERY HOUSE on campus...all are an honor to be part of...get real.

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Get ready to be dropped.... Hey there GDI.... Lol

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I went in with this exact same mentality. Ended up with a "lower tier house." And you know what? I couldn't be happier. I love where I am at and wouldn't want it any other way.

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this happened with me and alpha chi, except worse- they kept me all the way through the week and then dropped me on BID DAY. but i love the house i put second. you'll find your place in any house

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by: Km   

No house "drops" after pref. you just simply were not voted high enough to make the first bid list.

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by: @Km   

same deal though? like basically the same thing in terms of how it makes you feel.

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Re-evaluate your choices everyday and choose a new favorite if the favorite from the previous day does not appear on your party list. Make lemonade out if those lemons!

By: PNMs
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I am not worried because I do not have a favorite going in. I do not know enough of the actives in any house to make that sort of decision yet.

By: pnm33
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Good for you. This tier stuff is terribly juvenile. You are wise beyond your years to actually reserve judgement.

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This silly tier stuff only matters on greekrank and with grandmas who are trying to convince you to be in the house that was the best when they were in college. Smart girls with self confidence aren't bothered by it. The girls really bothered are the ones who don't really have enough confidence to recognize who they really are and be proud of it.

Someone above gave the best advice. Choose a new favorite everyday from the houses you have on your list. Forget the favorite you had the day before. Keep an open mind and open heart. When you get your bid commit fully. Don't go in thinking you might change your mind because this is your only chance at greek life and you CAN be completely happy in any house. It's just a choice. The more involved you are in your house, with your pledge sisters, and with the activities your house is doing, the happier you are. Sitting in your dorm room mourning that you didn't get AXO or PM, will never make you love Theta.

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It will all work out for the best!

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