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I'm sure you'll be able to find this answer somewhere, or maybe someone else will answer it. But I just wanted to give you a little bit of advice. When I went through recruitment, I thought I wanted a house that didn't party. I was a naive 18 year old just out of high school who had never drank before. If I had joined a house based on the fact that they didn't party, I would have ended up being disappointed because I changed A LOT in college. Turned out I loved to drink and party and have a good time. So don't try to join a house based on what you think you are like now. People change in college. Don't listen to reputations either. There may be a few houses that are known for being super wild but even those houses have a solid amount of girls who aren't into the party scene. You'll end up where you're comfortable as long as you go with your gut during recruitment. Don't base your decisions based on reputations you read on this site. I know you're only trying to get a feel for which houses may be good for you, but that's what recruitment is for! Just try to be patient and not try to plan out which houses will be good for you. Sorry for the novel!

I appreciate you taking the time to respond. Recruitment is so daunting and i want to be sure i'm making the right choice. I definitely want a sorority that likes to party, I mean I like to party. But I don't want to feel out of place when I can't go out every night.