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This helps. I'm not sure where you are from but my fairly large high school oos had a list of all the senior moms and their sororities. My mom also had lists from other grades. I was also in a service organization that had a list of all the moms and their sororities. We just went through and listed for each sorority the moms who knew me best. Your local Panhellenic can help you find recs, too. If your school doesn't do this you can ask your neighbors, friends at church, etc.

Alumnae preferred, and some sororities require alumnae recs.
NOT having them WILL make a difference.
Having them is sort of a first hurdle.
Teachers, friends' parents, neighbors, women at church, where you work or volunteer...ask your mom to post on her Facebook page. If you find one sorority woman, ask if she knows women in other sororities.
See if you have an alumnae panhellenic in or near your town that could help.

Thanks this helps a lot!

Does it look better if the recommendations are from a woman that was in a traditionally strong or top house? Or is that not even looked at? Like the difference between getting a rec from a Theta at the University of Texas vs one from a Theta at Ole Miss. I really want to know for recs from people that are not from UA.