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by: Southern Belle#2by: rtr
#4by: ...
I know my sorority doesn't have any rules saying we can't give a bid to a PNM who has a child. A girl from my high school had a baby senior year then went to college (not here) and pledged a Panhellenic sorority. She's not married to the dad, but he helps with their son, along with his parents and her parents, so she's got lots of support, which gives her time for school and lets her do pretty much with her chapter. That's the thing -- would you have time for sorority life? I mean, being a good mom to your son is the most important thing, and doing that while taking full-time classes will keep you really busy. But if you've got help and can manage your time, I don't think there's anything that says you can't rush. Somebody correct me if that's not right. Definitely don't bring him to parties, tho.
#7by: Puhleeze
I think it is very unfair that I know a couple of guys in fraternities who are baby daddys. They pay child support...then go on their merry way to have the full college experience. Sadly, that just doesn't happen for girls. It is 2014, but that is just the case. I don't judge anyone...there but for the grace of God go MANY of us. However...a "love child"? HOw the heck old are you? NO ONE says that. Or has said that since 1965. Wow!Go away, old person.
#8by: truth
The original poster doesn't seem to want to accept the truth. The truth is that I don't know any sorority, including alums, that will want to give a bid to a young mother. I agree, that there is a double standard for guys with babies. It is not fair. Personally, I believe that guys that aren't around to raise their babies are not respectable. If you have a child, it's time to grow up. It's too late to try and capture those carefree college days. It's time to put the child first and be a parent.It's too late to be greek.
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by: Southern Belle
Really? The girls would be ok with that?