Feeling down about Big/Little

tbh tell her how you feel. a lot of my friends were in between girls for both their bigs and littles and a lot of them went with the girl who expressed to them that they wanted them!!! It can feel a lil desperate, but it’s effective. also you never know, maybe she’s in the position to be able to take twins and can take her bid day lil and you (i wouldn’t count on this tho unless she knows you rlly want her)

if it doesn’t work out.. y’all can still be friends!! thats the beauty of being in a sorority. and a lot of chapters have a ritual where you get another older girl as almost a second big or role model in the sorority so theres still hope !

If she is really close to another new member, you run the risk of always being an after thought if you try to be her little or a twin. I’ve seen it happen. I advise you to give the other girls you that might possibly be your big a real chance.