When Best to Drop?

I know people say to stick it out, but I’m just not enjoying my sorority at all! I feel like I made a huge mistake!

My suitemates who joined supposedly low-mid houses all love their houses and are constantly off doing things or going out with their new friends in the houses. My new member class has broken off into their little friend groups, and I’m not really a part of any.

My Bid Day Big leaves my snaps on open. She has her eyes on someone else long term and I feel like it would be rude of me to try to steal someone else’s Big away. I’m sad thinking I’ll just wind up with a Big who gets stuck with me but doesn’t truly want me.

My suitemates all got dropped by the house that I got into, telling me I’m so lucky. But what I really want to do is drop and hopefully COB one their houses next year.

For COB, does it look better if I drop early? I was thinking it could hurt my chances if I stay in my house up until right before initiation. Odds are already against upper classmen during rush, so I appreciate any helpful advice y’all can give me.

I’m sorry to be so negative. It’s just so hard to be in a house where I’m almost positive I was a quota addition. They were my #1 house, but every day I regret not preffing differently.