Cob

It depends what the issue was. Was it gpa? Looks? Reputation? Attitude?

This same question has been asked at least 20 times today. Just scroll through the answered ones and stop blocking the feed.

You need to figure out what went wrong and fix it.

Do you need to work on your conversations? Were you focused on a certain set of houses with an off-putting attitude toward other houses? Did you do something questionable (or does someone know something questionable) and you have a bad rep? Do you have a low GPA?

If you can't actively think of anything, my guess is the conversations, attitude, and/or potentially your presentation can be improved. (By presentation I don't mean attractiveness, I mean put-together-ness.)

I wouldn't expect any house to give you a second chance until you improve whatever you need to improve.

Also consider SDT. They are not the traditional Bama sorority experience, but they are close knit and the ones I've met are wonderful people.

I would fill out the COB form on panhellenic’s website because it can’t hurt to try but you do need to do your best to figure out what went wrong. With COB the houses will contact you so you’ll have a lot fewer options, but you’ll most likely get a better chance to meet them and get a feel for the chapter and let them get a feel for you so it might go better for you. Just be aware that not all houses COB and the ones that COB the most are going to be the “bottom” houses but they’re all honestly great and will give you the same experience!

Did you have recs? I always worry when people rely on the advice that recs are encouraged, not mandatory, when really rushing without recs is a huge disadvantage.