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actives not following back

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what does it mean when you follow actives and they don’t follow you back? they’re not interested in getting to know you?

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#1  by: yeah   
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i feel like girls in kappa kd tri delt phi mu chi o are pretty bad about following back

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by: YepJul 28, 2020 9:46:08 PM

Those girls aren’t nice enough if they aren’t following you back...rude af

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by: pnm Jul 28, 2020 10:49:53 PM

I think tri delt and chi o have been the best at following back for me out of all of them, but you’re definitely right with kappa and phi mu. It could also be that each sorority is looking for different kinds of girls

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by: LllllJul 29, 2020 3:03:27 PM

Replying here so it’ll be seen. I don’t think it’s rude at all. I’m an active and I only follow people I know in real life. If a PNM follows me on my personal account and we’ve never met IRL, I’m not going to follow back. Personal account = personal decisions = not representative of the whole sorority. They didn’t ask you to follow them, they don’t owe you anything. Most sororities vote by hometown, if you’re not from their hometown and they aren’t voting on you, why would they care, especially if they don’t know you the slightest and your instas private.

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by: .Jul 29, 2020 3:24:36 PM

I get what you mean and that’s true but if you want a girl to feel welcomed and excited about your house that’s a big turn off. But if you don’t care about her as a pnm then I understand, I think girls here are just saying it’s like hurtful/upsetting

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#2  by: hehe   
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as an active: I think its so rude whoops

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#3  by: Guest   
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i have noticed this so much as a pnm and it honestly makes the house so much less desirable... not like anyone is obligated to follow back, but it comes across so unwelcoming

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#4  by: Pnm   
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It seriously makes you feel like they just took a look at u and were like no not worthy. Lol

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#5  by: Truth   
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If they don’t follow you back, they don’t deserve you to be in their sorority and that’s the truth!

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#6  by: lol   
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kappa girls do not follow back

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by: gJul 29, 2020 7:40:42 AM

right they won’t follow back unless you look exactly like “their type” or they already know u.... like girl i could still get in

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#7  by: pnm   
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i follow a bunch of girls from certain houses and most follow back, some don’t. for those handful that act like they’re too good, i KNOW those girls that didn’t will be shocked when i end up in their house even though i wasn’t worthy enough on insta... SMH

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#8  by: Oos pnm   
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I’ve notice most of the girls in the old row houses and some new row don’t follow me back or accept my follow request but they accept or follow back other pnm’s. Which makes me feel unwanted by those houses.

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by: PnmJul 29, 2020 2:36:35 PM

Facts

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#9  by: Pnm   
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Phi mu has been really bad at following back in my experience

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#10  by: omg   
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SO RUDE

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