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I am so aggravated with this one girl in the rush gm. Every time someone says like oh damn im sad rush is online, she comes back with this huge explanation on why no one should be negative. the pnms have a right to be upset about this virtual rush, it is so unfair for us. Idk who this girl thinks she is, but she lovesss to run every group me. She just seems like the kind of girl who had no friends in high school, so now she is now queen bama so she can force friends

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She’s kind of right though. I mean y’all can be upset all you want but I don’t see the issue in her having a positive attitude about it and trying to encourage others to do the same. You can’t change the situation but you can try to have a better outlook on it

By: I meaaann
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Maybe but it’s done in such a condescending way. Idk if you’ve seen the messages but it just makes us feel invalid. Like we are stupid for being upset. And we can be upset for a day. We have had our senior years ruined. It’s ok to be mad. Saying it once’s isn’t wallowing in despair it’s just expressing our feelings. And they are being put down by some girl who thinks she’s better than the rest of us.

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I’m not in the pnm chats because I’m an active lol. So I haven’t seen the messages. But regardless, I still don’t think it’s right to come onto this site and start talking crap about her either. I’m pretty sure I know who you’re talking about, and she’s gotten way too much hate on here, y’all really should mind your business and leave her alone, and she should do the same. It’s about ~mutual respect~ because tbh you never know, she could end up being one of your sisters

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Yes I agree it’s not right. And ppl leaving initials and stuff is so wrong. That being said it kinda really sucks getting the backhanded compliments or being put down for asking a question or having an opinion. It’s insulting and hurtful even if small things. And that actually is PUBLIC. so sure saying stuff online is bad but I mean we have feelings too and it can be very hurtful.

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by: Guest   

Ok but 2 wrongs don’t make a right. And I’d argue that this site is very much public

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I am pretty sure it's you know who from YouTube that dropped to get the OR house she brags on.

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So we’re just gonna be rude to other pnms now? Is that what we’re doing? Just because she’s not having a pity party and trying to be open minded about the situation? Some of you really need to grow up and learn to be nice

By: Girl what?
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Heather J. you need to stop winning you the annoying one

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WHINING not winning lol but true shut up and stay positive

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I heard lots of the actives don’t want to come back for recruitment anyways. They try to find ways out of having to be there.

By: Facts
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To be fair this is the same every other year lol

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You all sound entitled complaining. You don’t have to sit outside in the heat, it’s a lot easier to fake it till you make it if that’s your approach, you have more time to primp and prepare yourself. You can even have special little lighting setups if you want. PNMS have it EASIER than ever before. Please calm down

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Let’s also discuss how no contact is lifted and pnms can form bonds with active sorority girls in hopes they pull for them which is happening a TON this year. Advantages are endless this year.

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I don’t really disagree with op, I mean excessively complaining is a bit much but it’s valid to be a little upset about, I do think the perks of not having the heat and a quiet place to have conversation can be good though

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Are we still talking about SM? I thought that topic was done. Yeah it's valid to be a little upset, but there's a lot of reasons this'll be easier for the Pam's. The heat, the screaming, the running from one side of sorority row to the other in heels. Everyone needs to just chill

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Yup couldn't have said it better myself! I'm a PNM in the gm too and for real, shes a nasty lil ho. Glad others see through her vapid gaslighting. Honestly debating if I even want to do sisterhood, she paints a bad picture of the year. This girl needs to take a dang CHILL PILL and stfu

By: Yessssss
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I kinda agree with op. im in the gm and I said one thing about being upset and it felt like she kinda snapped at me. Its so awkward, because I actually think a lot of people probably agreed with me. I wish that I could have an opinion in the gc with some of my future sisters without feeling like im being judged. also I lowkey just think that girl is just saying what she thinks the actives want to hear... cough cough zetas

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wait is there actives in the groupmes? even with no contact lifted you arent supposed to be in groupchats with actives...

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Everyone needs to quit posting names or initials on GR or any other board. If you want to do that then post your name too so we know who is saying what. If the gm bothers you so much then leave it or form another one.

By: Relax
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There is no way a girl who looks and acts like SM will ever get zeta. Maybe sdt

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Shut up heather u will get 0 bids

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