Getting dropped

It’s ok to be shy, but you still need to be able to hold your end of the convo. We can’t do all the talking and get to know you that way.

in the past a lot of girls have been shy, but instead they come off uninterested so that’s ultimately why they are dropped, it’s okay to be shy as long as you are seeming into the convos with that certain house!

Just remember actives are just as nervous as you! there is nothing wrong with being shy I am too, but you do have to try as much as you can to put on a face. like the person said above it can be taken as you being uninterested. Especially in early rounds- cuts are so heavy if the active has any wavering feeling about you, you'll probably get dropped. Also please do not take it personal if a house drops you! the past 2 years being on the other side I've talked to girls I absolutely love, but I just did not see them being a good fit in my house- it had nothing to do with something being wrong with them or whatever at the end of the day we all want someone to be happy and end up where they belong :)

tbh my house will drop you anytime we don’t feel like you’re a good fit for the house. that is our biggest concern. i talk to sooo many girls i like during rush but i have to think about whether YOUR BEST FIT will fit into my house and if you’d be able to make friends with at least a good amount of girls in the house. i am in a “good” house but i drop so many girls i talked to bc i know they’d have more fun or feel more like themselves in different houses.