Future roomies judging me for rushing
by: HelpHey, so I’ve met these girls online through Facebook on the private freshman group and all 4 of us talk pretty often and we’re supposed to room together in a suite. We never had talked about Greek life really, but recently out of nowhere 3 of them have been downing Greek life and girls in sororities. Idk what to do, I really like these girls and think we’ll get along great in person, however I fully intended on rushing and being involved in a sorority. Any advice on how to tell them I’m rushing, without them trying to discourage me from quitting or attacking me for it? I respect their decision to not join. I would just like to not feel alienated because I do want to be in a sorority. And I know I’ll make friends in the sorority I’ll join but I really wanna be friends with these girls.
Comment#2by: ,
Maybe just say that you are giving it a try and that you are open minded about it. You could say that many girls when you toured told you it is the best way to meet people from all over and that you just wanted to meet a lot of new people right off the bat in college. You could say "I am still not 100% about it but i'm going to give it a try". Anyone that doesn't respect that, you wouldn't want to be friends with anyway!!
#3by: yeah
just say you're interested in joining greek life and you would appreciate if they wouldn't belittle it. if they still continue to bash it and start to be rude to you then i would suggest finding new roommates! join a sorority rush group me i am sure there are plenty of amazing girls who would understand you and are looking for roommates.
#4by: Mean
Honestly, they sound very rude and mean. It is none of their business if you rush a greek house.It is a personal decision, the best friends that people ever met were greek. It is a personal decision and it will be the best decision of your life no matter what house you join.
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I agree w mean. You’re going to be spending the next year of your life with these girls, and before you even live with them they’re judging you and making you feel (essentially) self conscious about doing your own thing? If [you] want to rush, it’s your choice. If you end up unhappy with the process, you can always drop, but if you choose not to rush because your roommates are influencing your decision negatively, you might truly regret it. I hope this gives some helpful insight
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