I’m not being rushed hard...

SAME!!!

You will be fine ! It will be fine!! This is why so many of us were against National Panhellenic’s decision to stop the no contact rule. At least before the dirty rushing was done in secret . At most all schools this isn’t a problem and the no contact ending is beneficial but Bama is definitely an exception to the rule .

Don’t be discouraged and have I hope you have an amazing recruitment!

Also the odds are you were assigned a lazy active. (And they are assigned! It’s all planned out... usually) Some sororities do more of this type stuff than others. Not everyone loves rush on the other side and all that you have to do to connect with pnms. Text pnms you don’t really know. Comment and follow pnms which messes up your insta feed from current friends. We may tell our recruitment chair we are doing this or that but we may not be! Do NOT worry- all will be fine.

Every active member is assigned pnms. I’m the most active out of my friendgroup bc I love rush but some of my friend don’t care at all and haven’t done anything. It just depends on wo you get assigned too which is a completely random amount of luck.

Girlllll do not stress. If you have an amazing GPA and can hold a decent conversation with people you will be fine. Have hope and don’t let the social media stuff bother you