can sororities tell if they dropped you before?
by: Sophomore PNMI rushed freshman year and I didn’t know anyone. Unfortunately I was released from the process. If I rush as a sophomore will they know I rushed freshman year and/or that I was dropped. Will they know if their individual house dropped me too?
Commentby: ^Feb 25, 2020 10:58:52 PM
No one can tell you why you were dropped by all houses, but usually it's because of personality. Too quiet and shy, or didn't indicate interest in the house, kind of blah and just there or hard to read, didn't smile. Or, maybe too much the other way, like too assertive or opinionated, laughed too loudly too often, too talkative, over the top. When you're nervous it's harder to relate to strangers, so now that you've gone through it once and know what to expect, perhaps you will be calmer and can adjust your personality to light up or dial back as appropriate.
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by: Sophomore PNM Feb 25, 2020 11:17:31 PM
So will the houses know that I was released from the process as a whole or that they individually dropped me?
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by: ^Feb 26, 2020 11:35:20 AM
A house will know if they dropped you but they don't have some kind of report on who was dropped by other sororities. It wouldn't matter anyway; a sorority doesn't make decisions based on what other sororities decide. Don't worry about it. The next year rushing can be a fresh start and you know more now.
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by: Sophomore PNMFeb 25, 2020 6:00:30 PM
I came in with a 4.0 GPA and at least one rec for every house. My GPA is still really good. So I’m wondering what else they’re looking for
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