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my roommate is an idiot

by: Omg

Been group texting with my suite mates all through rush and one had a freaking full card, 7 houses. 3 of which I loved and got cut from. After her first party she decided to just quit claiming "she only had the 7 worst houses left". Me and another girl only have 3 and one was released all together. That's it just a rant! Thats 7 invites that could of gone to others girls right?

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#1  by: Hmmm   
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That's correct. She has shown her true colors. It's confusing to me that those who are most offended by being judged by others (getting cut by their favorite houses) are the most judgmental when it comes to giving every house a fair look. All of those houses she dropped have amazing women in them. If she thinks she is too good for those 2000+ women then shame on her. She'll miss out and they will avoid adding that kind of person to their ranks. Good luck to you and your other roommates!

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by: AmenAug 15, 2019 2:42:29 PM

Amen to that!! Often overlooked that the pnms are judging the houses as much if not more than the houses are judging them. So many have formed an opinion prior to recruitment much like the houses have. Good chance your roommate would have ended up with nothing in the end so glad she dropped now so she won’t continue to take others spots. On bid day or before this site will be flooded with girls complaining that it is not fair, looking for snap bids, and or cob opportunities. For those that followed through with the process, went to all parties, and ranked all house each and every round I will be sorry for them. The girls that suicide, skip parties, drop because they feel they are too good for the houses they have left I will have no pity. Good luck to you and your suit mates. Hope you all find your home.

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#2  by: Karma   
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She's going to feel like more than an idiot on bid day when everyone around her is running home and getting ready to go on retreats and then jumping into their meetings and mixers etc, not to mention first game day when everyone will where their spirit pins and she is completely left out. You may have to bite your tongue quite a bit to keep the peace.

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#3  by: ew   
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omg ungrateful much? She doesn't deserve a house

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#4  by: well   
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I don't think she is ungrateful a lot of people do not want to rush a house they just like but one they love since once you are in you norms would have to stay in and be committed to it

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by: PleaseAug 16, 2019 6:30:37 AM

You are a few days in and you have met a few actives. She should have followed the process through at least until pref given the houses a chance. Your pledge class is who you will be closest to. At pref you will see all the other pnms that may be your sisters. Look around those parties and pay attention to the other pnms that are there. If at that point you don’t feel it by all means don’t sign your card so you don’t take another’s place that would love to be in that house.

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by: -Aug 16, 2019 7:57:21 AM

Fine attitude if you are happy being a GDI. You are in love with houses that don't love you back. You may not love the other house right away but that might be because you were distracted by chasing a dream that was never going to become a reality or you were easily influenced by fake information and propaganda. Both tell more about you than any house on the row. If you had looked closely at those dream houses, they too have their issues and are far from perfect. There is no harm in taking another fresh look at what you have left when you are not dazzled and distracted by the others. Too many PNM have an inflated view of themselves and also some of the houses while looking down on others. You will surely find many things to love in the other houses. If you can't find something to love there, the problem is most likely you not them. Then you need to drop because you will never be happy and these houses don't want that type of attitude.

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