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by: pnmI need advise. I have several old row houses where I feel a connection. I was valedictorian in hs and super involved in school activities. But I also feel a connection at a new row house. Am I better off leaning toward the new row house because I want to have the same level of involvement in college that I had in hs. I’m afraid if I go to the old row houses I’m interested in that I will just be one more smart involved girl amount the hundreds and it will be harder to stand out and have leadership roles, etc. what should I do?
#4 by: Girl
You should wait and see your schedule for Sisterhood before feeling this torn. Making it to philanthropy is no big deal for a girl like you. The real stress comes next. Don't harp on these things until you know where you're preffing even. A LOT can change in the next couple of days.
#5 by: I tried
Alright since no one can give any real advice here... I definitely follow your logic that a new row house would have more opportunities and less competition for those opportunities than one of the high achieving old row houses. If that is what is most important to you, then I would lean more toward the new row house. However, if an old row house feels like home, don't write it off. And alternatively, if that new row house doesn't feel quite right, forget it. You can always join clubs and hold positions outside of Greek life. You could think of Greek life as more for socializing and friendships and clubs for the leadership positions. I think you'll be fine either way. But as someone else suggested, talk to a mom or a friend. I'm trying my best but I don't know you and this may not be the best advice for you!
#8 by: Truth
If you are not heavily connected with the old alums that run old row houses you will NEVER have a leadership role in an old row house. That’s just the truth! If you don’t want to just blend in and go through the motions of voting pick a new row house. Once in you see the rankings on this site are complete BS. If you could talk to actives this week they would tell you they question some of the ones that got dropped and some of the ones that got invited back. They know which girls their sisters voted high and low.
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by: pnmAug 14, 2019 8:08:23 PM
Sorry, I didn’t take a keyboarding class! Haha