it will all be okay come bid day

This is not a negative post. I just want PNMs who actually read this website to know that all the information posted on here is irrelevant by the time you are at the front door of those mansions. That most of the people who post all the negative comments are not in a sorority or old alum trying to make other sororities look bad. Once you are on campus you will see how other sororities interact with one another. They are one big community. Rush is intense, don't let posts get to your head. Trust me, if you are reading this a week before Rush none of the posts are going to be from actually sorority girls. They are too busy preparing to meet you. Don't overthink, everything happens for a reason. You will find your place. There are like 350 to 400 girls in each sorority and like 17ish sororities. You will make friends and you will have a great time.