pref night

personally i would only rank the houses that you could see yourself joining. if you rank them all then drop you just took the spot of a girl who may have really wanted a spot in that sorority but they had to drop her because of quota.

I preffed DZ, ZETA, and AOII. I ended up in my first choice out of those three!

It's my opinion that everything will work out if you want it to. But you have to desire a sisterhood or you won't have one.

Whatever house you join will require you to make an effort to get to know the girls around you and to find things to like. For some people it's easier to find things they don't like. If you're negative like that, it's going to be hard to fall in love with a house, no matter how prestigious.

Don't accept a bid to a house if you think it's beneath you. It's always amazing to me to think that there are girls who find any house beneath them when CLEARLY, the house that gave them a bid was the ONLY HOUSE THAT WANTED them.

If you want AXO or PM and get KAT or GPB, your choices are:

Reject the bid - chances are this is the best you'll do in recruitment and next year you won't even get a bid from those houses. You're pretty well doomed to live outside of greek life.

Accept the bid - run to the house, act all excited, keep your tears for later, and start trying to get to know your new sisters. DON'T EVEN THINK about depledging. Again, things won't be better next year. Remember, these girls took a chance on you. Don't let them down because you feel embarrassed because you've been reading greekrank and know they're at the bottom.

An enthusiastic pledge class can really boost a house in the rankings. If it's rankings you're chasing, you can make a huge change during your 4 years if you're enthusiastic and involved. 4 years later -- maybe they're the top!