unsure.... life as a non greek girl

I'm really not sure if I want to join a sorority. It seems like so much fun but I can't see myself in one. I've always been involved in clubs, sga, sports. From older friends in college all over the south I get different opinions.
I'm going to go through recruitment just because I want to see what it's all about here. Just if I got dropped or decide to drop I doubt I'd be that upset and desperately wanting to get an open bid or re-rush sophomore year.
Isn't Alabama like all colleges where you can make a ton of friends all over campus?
Also I heard a rumour from my cousin at UGA that non Greek girls never get boyfriends in "decent frats"
or invited to any fraternity stuff (parties, date nights, whatever) or worse get treated badly of they do. Boys aren't my whole world or anything haha but it would be nice to have some social fun. Doesn't everyone get a fake and go to the same places?

Could some real actives or recent alums to respond?