dating a gdi

by: Taken July 31, 2013 7:21:41 AM

I'm a pnm and my highschool boyfriend is going to ua as well. I'm not saying we'll be together for all of college - I can't tell the future - but we're definitely gonna continue dating and see how things work out. Is it weird to be in a sorority with a long term boyfriend? He definitely doesn't wanna join a fraternity, if that makes a difference. Also, does it make social events with fraternities less fun? I've had a couple of really cool guy friends my whole life - are the guys fine with being like that or will I get ignored completely if I don't want to hook up with them?

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#1by: You can do it. July 31, 2013 9:47:49 AM

However, it will be odd at times, especially if the boyfriend is uptight about it.

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#2by: Ok... July 31, 2013 10:06:22 AM

Don't decide to date or not to date your bf based on your sorority. Don't decide to join or not join a sorority because of your boyfriend. You don't even know all the boys that you could potentially be having swaps with yet, so don't worry about it now and don't do that to your poor bf. You haven't even received a sorority bid yet. And regardless if you do or don't decide to breakup with him, don't going around hooking up with boys...not classy. And no they won't like you just because you hook up with them, in fact they will respect you a lot less, especially the top old row fraternities. These boys may want to have fun for a night but if you act like a lady around fraternities like DKE, SAE and KA then they will appreciate your class and respect you. But you don't even know how rush will end up or if you will even like the guys your sorority hangs out with. Don't stress about all this stuff already like you are, just take one step at a time! Im sure it will all end up like its meant to be. Have fun at UA and good luck with rush!!!

By: Ok...July 31, 2013 10:06:22 AM