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Like when a girl goes to fraternity's formals that involve overnight trips, are they hooking up with their dates like almost for sure or not really?

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Honestly most boys expect it, they also expect it if they take you to a big party like Stockhokders or Old South, etc.

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by: hi   

are they pushy about it tho?

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by: hm   

different active/not the person you're replying to

but generally speaking you're close enough with the guy that you've probably already hooked up OR you both know that you wanna hook up with one another, it's not like he's a stranger and you probably wouldn't say yes to an overnight formal unless you wanted to hook up anyways? or you've both already established that hooking up won't happen, i guess, idk.

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Some guys bring really good friends, some guys bring their friends with benefits, some guys bring their girlfriends, and some guys bring girls they found last minute either through friends he has in a sorority or on tinder. TBH, since you are going as a date, most guys will be expecting to hookup, unless told otherwise. It's kind of like a sorority formal - girls can bring whoever, whether he be a friend, boyfriend, or somewhere in between there. As a date, it's assumed you're willing to go home with him unless you tell him you're not down for that. Also, for frat formals, y'all share a bed so...

But most guys aren't pushy. I mean in general, when guys get drunk they'll kind of insinuate they want to hookup but if sternly tell them no, they'll usually back off lol.

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Lots of girls I know go with their boyfriends and they've already hooked up before. The ones who go with friends have a relationship with the guy and the guy knows it's not going to be a hookup. If they've just met, most girls find a way to tell the guy first that they're not ready for a "relationship" but they're willing to go as friends if he wants to.

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tease em never please em ladies!!!!!

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!!!!!!

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by: Goback   

Put your girdle on and go back to the 1950s grandma.

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by: Please.    

Get in the windmill. 6 times!

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honestly id avoid it as long as possible. the build up is so much more fun then actually hooking up. its a tete-a-tete.

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Bump

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bump

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As the girls above said most girls go with a boyfriend or FWB but I have a few guy friends who brought random dates that wouldn't hook up with them and they were PISSED

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by: Pnm   

Places a whole new perspective on all thos insta pics by the old row actives from the sae, ka, phi gam, and other long drawn out formals. You are there if you put out, or they expect you will? Guess this is no surprise but Ok then

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by: Woah   

Is that the only reason they invite that girl?

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by: Yup   

Formals are like $600+, no guys going to bring a girl who’s not going to put out

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If you get asked on a fraternity formal and aren't the least bit interested in the guy please just respectfully decline the invitation

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As if there aren't already a million reasons for Moms to stay of GR, here's an obvious one....

Bad way to find out precious daughter went to a formal
and with 99 percent certainty got laid!

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Do you Jane any friends in real life to take this up with?

Not trying to be mean, but this is best as a private conversation.

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by: well   

it is an anon site...

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pnm

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Looking at the votes above gives a good sense of who is on GR......

Those without dates!

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by: lol   

it's probably pnm's, nothing wrong with asking m8

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by: Haha   

It's moms silly.

So if that KD goes to old south and then goes to two more, maybe we know more about her than that she is "popular"...

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