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It doesn't matter. There's a group of immature, insecure ppl who really do care how others see them more than they care about being happy and comfortable in their own skin. The people who feel insecure about where their house falls in the "tiers" and who wants to mix with them are the majority of ppl who write nasty things on here. Every house has great ppl in it, and every house has a lot of fun social events. There are insecure ppl in all tiers, and all houses. It's a shame, but a part of life. In the big scheme of life, not many ppl really care what others think of them, certainly not the kind of ppl who judge solely based on looks and tiers. Don't feel bad for those who are not in the "top," feel bad for the ones that care that much.