why i'm rushing

I'm rushing and its hell but I think itll be worth it. I came on this website because I heard some girls talking about rankings and "the core four" and and had no idea what they meant. In the end I feel like I'd be doing a disservice to myself and my future sisters by choosing a house based on those things. In the end its a choice ill have to live with for basically my whole life and I don't see a point in missing out on something great for shallow reasons. I don't think rankings mean anything because no one else is me and the person who knows me best is ultimately me so why should I listen to some rando on a site that feeds off of people's insecurities and our desire to feel wanted?