is there really a different btwn sororitys

Well the biggest thing is the personality of each sorority is different. You’d definitely want to join the sorority that you get along with best which obviously varies for every person. You’ll also mix with different frats based on which sorority you’re in. The different tiers of sororitys/frats mix together. But honestly if you get along with girls in lower tier sorority you’ll probably enjoy mixers with lower tier frats more than you would with upper tier frats because you’ll have more in common with the guys in a similar tier. All the sororities are friends with each other and have plenty of parties. All about who you could see yourself doing that with.

Honestly- it doesn’t really matter. You’re going to meet great girls in every house. You’re going to have fun, socials, mixers, events, community service.
They say it matters but it doesn’t. If you met girls from each house anywhere else and didn’t know who went with which letters you’d probably think differently than you think reading on here.