which house will hurt my feelings the most?

I have seen posts on here about how certain houses will lie to you to make you feel like you have a shot, then turn around and cut you loose like they never knew you!

I just wanted to know which house is known for doing this, and is there any way I can increase my chances of getting into one of them? for example, wearing exclusive and expensive clothing and really flashing my wealth but also being low key and smart and fun? thanks