check this pnms

Every house at Cornell, and probably every school, has some girls that really care about what others think, and live their lives based on that, until the one day they realize it sucks to live like that. This site is run by those girls! Some houses have more than others...you're smart, I don't need to tell you which ones. Go through rush, and you'll see for yourself. If you don't want to live like that, then be yourself and look around you at who's already in the houses and who is standing next to you at later rounds...chose to rush where you belong, not where you think will "look good." If you do this, you'll be fine.