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by: Sad

Did anybody else get released from the process the day before pref day? What did I do wrong to make all the sorority houses hate me? Is there any possible way I can be in Greek life now?

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#1  by: So   
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I’m not going to make any assumptions why you were dropped. For that I’d recommend talking to your pi chi about the conversations you had in each house, how you presented yourself, any possible attitude. She’d know better than ransoms on the internet.

As for still being Greek, sure. There’s still spring recruitment for some chapters and then you can try again next year if that doesn’t work.

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#2  by: Helen   
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I am so sorry. Please do reach out to your pi chi and express your interest in COBs. She can guide you through that process (if there are those opportunities open right now) and let you know about spring rush. Many women take circuitous paths to sorority membership. Please know you're not the only one this happened to.

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#3  by: Truth   
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Do you really want to join a group of girls who didn’t want you? There are many other clubs and organizations to join.

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#4  by: Uh   
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Then those houses aren’t doing rush in a way where girls talk to enough sisters to vote on her. Not all do it in that impractical way. I only know how my chapter does it, which is a more practical way, where we know wether or not you belong with us especially after round 3...

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by: KAug 25, 2018 11:29:07 AM

Some have you talk to one girl some have you talk to multiple girls. The ones that have you talk to multiple are the ones that are rushing right. Sadly, most houses don’t do it that way.

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by: sadAug 25, 2018 3:17:23 PM

during round 1, in most houses, not all but a majority, I only talked to one girl and then all but 4 dropped me. and those 4 houses were the ones where I talked to more than one girl. and then I was asked back to all 4 for rounds 2 and 3 but then after that my pi chi called me last night and told me I had been released and I honestly thought I presented my best self at all the houses and I'm just really sad and heart broken because I was really looking forward to this experience.

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