blackballed for rush?

sweetie you need to worry less about getting cut everywhere, and worry more about getting recommendations everywhere. there is no way that these girls who dislike you can affect your chances EVERYWHERE. they would have to go to extensive lengths for that to happen.

but i will say, they can easily just tell their friends in other sororities about you, and the truth is, unless you're crazy gorgeous or you had like a 4.3 in high school.. you're not going to overcome the reputation you have created for yourself. i don't know why you didn't think about this sooner. that's why people go AWAY for college. they don't go to a school where everyone knows what they've done.

I really dont like your personality, and If I knew who you were you wouldn't be going anywhere in my book.

What's done is done. All you can do is move forward and do what you can to increase your odds of having a good recruitment. Honestly, though, you came in here sounding like your back was up and your claws were out. Maybe that's because you had "just read" the info that upset you, but you need to pull all that back in. No point worrying about what you can't control, which includes member selection. Focus on what you can control: Get recommendations to every chapter, make sure all your social media is in good shape, choose now to keep an open mind throughout rush and go into it with your best foot forward. Good luck to you!

Honestly with this attitude it sounds like you arent even a good fit for greek life, maybe you should consider going to a smaller school with a less competitive greek life. In the SEC we don't mess around, there are wayyy too many amazing, competitive girls to waste a spot on a potential risk who doesn't even sound that invested in the purpose of a sorority: SISTERHOOD. I literally cannot get over how low class/bratty/disrespectful you sound. NOT character traits we look for in a PNM...

Trust me, you don't want to be in a sorority. All those broads do is get slobbering drunk and screw every loser with a trust fund.

First off, lose the attitude with the whole "Holier than thou". I personally know my sorority does take every members personal opinion very seriously. Partying is one thing but if you were an absolute mess in high school or did one really bad thing, we will vote as a chapter about whether or not we want to continue rushing you based on if a sister brings it up as a concern. That being said, the sorority won't always 100% deem you out if you did one bad thing. It's a majority vote. The reason we do this is because we don't want two girls that hate each other from high school or whatever in the same sorority. It hurts the sisterhood. We want members who glorify each other. Good luck during rush! I'm sure you're just overthinking it.

If you don't have any direct friends in any sororities you probably won't get in to a top one. Especially if you have a rep. I know a girl from Charlotte who had a bad rep and got cut from everywhere but Gphi two years ago and she was perfectly normal and pretty.

Honestly, you sound like you have a very bad attitude. You're already very defensive and sound confrontational. People can sense your vibe and just not want to be around you.

Lol I don't think the OP wanted advice, she just wanted to be validated. Nice try, hateful. Keep on movin' along. We don't have time for disgusting wenches with terribad attitudes.

you may be over thinking it your rep may not be as bad as you think it is. But back to what you said, yes just because one girl doesn't like you doesn't necessarily mean you'll be blackballed but depending on the circumstances you might still have a good chance of that happening. Maybe Greek life isn't for you