how to connect better in my sorority

I am struggling to find my people in my sorority. At home, I'm used to going out pretty often and spending a lot of time with my friends. I'm struggling to find a group that I relate to and has had similar experiences as me. I feel like im hanging out with a bunch of people who have never gone out before and I just find myself having a hard time letting loose and enjoying myself. I see my friends and girls on my hall having such a good time and finding people they really connect with in their sororities but I'm just not feeling it yet. Any advice would be so appreciated