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I got a COB big from Alpha Phi and not sure if I should take it. I love the girls I’ve talked to and their friendships seem so genuine but everyone on this site seems to hate them. I also don’t understand how they are ranked bc my friends in frats/srats seem to think they are much better than greekrank does. Idk what I shld do someone help

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Just ignore the rank! If you’re friends with them, go for Alpha Phi. In my opinion, jt matters if you get along with them the most :)

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If you base any decision on RANKS that random people on a questionable anonymous site have to say then you don't deserve to be in a sorority. Can you not make up your own damn mind? Do you want a sisterhood or just clout for wearing letters? wt actual f?

By: moron
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it’s not as much about the ranks as it is that people are saying the sisterhood is fake and genuine girls fall into traps and end up regretting joining! just want to know if that’s all bitter girls or the truth

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Alpha phi kinda sucks

By: Lol

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I'll be honest with you, they are notoriously known for ranking their members into different groups: A, B, C,etc. based off how pretty they are and its a known thing. I don't think you should be paying dues for a sorority where they base your standing off your face!

By: sorry
by: Lol   

You know this because? You heard about a story regarding another chapter in another state years ago? You heard campus gossip based off this and now its become the "truth"? Or...let me guess, you have several "friends" who are Alpha Phis who told you this? Sure, whatever.
To the OP, I honestly don't know a lot about APhi. I've met some cute, nice girls. If you got a cob bid, you must know some girls. So, ask them your questions. It's not the best idea to come to an anonymous site you already know "hates APhi" to ask advice.

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Hard pass

By: Cob
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So I’m actually in APhi at another school but transferring to UGA next year, and I’m not planning to re-affiliate with the chapter here.

From what I know about their UGA chapter, I don’t think they’re as bad as people say on this site, but there’s definitely a social hierarchy within the chapter and I’ve heard they can be unwelcoming to any “non-standard” members (like transfers, upperclassmen, COB bids etc…).

Also, just a heads up but APhi at pretty much any school is the type of sorority where nationals puts a ton of pressure on chapters to fit our overall “brand” which means that if you don’t already fit that image, you’ll be expected to conform or be pressured to drop. Personally I think some of our rules around appearance and social media presence are not very inclusive, but I have heard that the UGA chapter is less restrictive about getting involved in other campus organizations at least (at my current school, we can only join other clubs/organizations if they’re on APhi’s approved list)

Basically, if you feel confident that you fit in well with the chapter, and don’t mind having to follow a lot of rules, then I think the UGA APhi chapter is probably a solid option, but if you’re the type of person who values individuality and/or if you don’t feel like you’re that similar to the other APhis you’ve met, it might be worth exploring other options during COB or waiting until fall rush if possible.

By: Fake
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do it do it do it. im in an old row sorority and if i didn't go the way i did i would have gone aphi. aphi is so good ppl who hate on them r jealous of the house. yes they are more wealthy but my best friend is an aphi and i have not met one in pc 23 that i haven't liked!

By: old row

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