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In house recommendations

by: help

are my chances better compared to other pnms if I have connections to girls inside houses already? I've let all the girls I already know in sororities here that I'm rushing in the fall and I was wondering if that would get me a leg up? Of course I'm getting recs for all the houses but do in house recs carry heavier weight?

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#1  by: Yep   
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IDK what you mean by in house recs because you are actually talking about two completely different things. An official rec from an alum merely checks a perfunctory box, and can keep you from getting cut for not having one if it comes down to that kind of chapter decision, so yes, do get your recs. It shows that you are interested in the chapter and cared enough to go to the trouble of securing one, but a rec will never, ever, secure a bid or even an invitation to the next round. On the other hand, the actives you already know can really be an advantage for you - IF they like you enough to speak up for you enthusiastically, and IF they have the influence and respect in their chapter for their opinion to hold sway. It's a chapter decision so there are all kinds of dynamics in play, but yes, you are right in letting them know ahead of time that you will be coming through. Good luck.

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by: YepJun 26, 2022 8:19:54 AM

And get the rec even if you know members in the house.

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