Word of Advice for PNMs on Greek Rank
by: bee
If you are a PNM, please exit out of Greek Rank and never come back. Ranking these groups and pitting them against each other exemplifies all of the complaints people have about Greek Life in the first place.
What does it even mean to be "top tier" anyway? Do you pick your friends from their looks and Instagram feed? If you're a woman, is the person whose approval matters most a fraternity boy named Jacob who gets blackout at every social or YOURSELF? It's all so dumb.
Also these perceived groupings within Greek Life aren't shared on campus. If these are truly your values then you really need to evaluate your life and what matters. There will be women who are and aren't "conventionally attractive" in each sorority (which who CARES). There will be girls on the Dean's List and others who aren't. There will be some you hate and love in every chapter.
If your entire life and college experience is about being popular and maintaining rigid and misplaced social constraints and attractive in other people's eyes then you're going to live such an unfulfilling life.
Word of advice to any women rushing: don't read these stupid and honestly misogynistic posts. Go in with an open mind. Pay attention to where you feel most like yourself. Ask yourself not "are these people like me" but "will these people push me to be a better version of myself"? Focus on what's a good fit for you.
#1by: facts
Just imagine if this site wasn’t anonymous. This is the absolute truth, but the girls and guys on here who spend time ranking and putting other groups down are so disillusioned into thinking outward perception of what their chapter looks like to other people matters enough to warrant being on here. And then people keep this website in business by paying to remove negative ranks, etc. Generally speaking, the fraternities/sororities perceived as “top” here are top because of their social calendar and funding. That’s it. So if you’re looking for that, you can find it here-take it from me though, the grass is always greener on the other side. I’d give up all of the social stuff if it meant being closer with the people I’m around.
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