important for pnms

As its been said a million times before, this site is poison. But I will say this, I've been scrolling through every now and again because I was a PNM once and I know how stressful it can be. Here are some things to keep in mind.
-Yes your appearance does matter, but not necessarily to the point where you need to look perfect. You should just look your best for you. Don't compare yourself to other people, just try to make yourself look nice and where clothes, makeup and shoes your comfortable in. If your worried about your size, whether your big or small, just wear clothes your comfortable in. Some houses will judge based off your appearance, but if you're a killer conversationalist and are show your personality, you may still get invited back. BUT ALSO DON'T JOIN THAT ONE IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND THE GIRLS.
-Also bring a fan and an umbrella just in case
-Don't wear heals the first few days