It’s unbearable

Please if you notice anyone alone or too themselves in your sorority please reach out to them, invite them, or simply just talk to them. A little goes a long a way. I feel like I’m on the outside looking in at my sorority everyday, like everyone is so close to each other and i feel so excluded it’s unbearable. Like invite them to that pre, to that blue jays game, st Patrick’s day party, etc … how do you think someone in your chapter will feel when you have all this fun with your other sorority sisters all over social media and they are not invited. I will my sorority with no one and I joined it because I wanted friends and everything fun it has to offer, however I see other girls in my pledge class get so close with and the other members and live out the experience I dreamed of. I can never relate to the stories people have in my chapter, I attend as many events as possible, and still I’m not close with any of them. It can be so sad sometimes and I question whether it’s my appearance , I don’t know. But simply inviting someone out for coffee, or noticing having a conversation with them after chapter meeting is everything. I watch how the new members and girls in my pc get invited to every and are treated with so much hospitality such as going out for lunch, going the art gallery, doing a workout together goes such a long way. I remember when I got invited to a pre for the first time, and that meant everything to me because I never ever have been to prior to semi. I would simply just show up. We recently had our senior farewell and I never felt that connection with any of the seniors yet everyone else was crying and had all these memories of how the seniors would invite them out when they first joined the sorority yet they never did that to me. I was emotional not because they were leaving but it just further proved how lonely I am in my chapter