advice for pnms

To all the girls about to go through rush, the best piece of advice I can give you is this: pick the place where you feel like you can be yourself when you walk through the doors. Don’t choose the place where you have to try to be something you are not because if you do, you will have to waste so much time and energy over the next few years trying to keep up with everyone else instead of just being comfortable. It doesn’t matter which sorority you feel comfortable at because each one has a variety of girls and the stereotypes about wake sororities are so stupid and outdated. Once you rush you will realize that no one really cares about this website except for the people who are unhappy in their fraternity/sorority. Anyone who cares about popularity in collage is someone who peaked in high school. Choose the place where you feel you will be built up instead of knocked down. That was my thinking when I was rushing and I can truly say it made all the difference and I’ve never felt happier. Ignore all the arguing and hate on this website because it’s only going to confuse you in the process. You will know where you fit in bechsss you will feel more confident than nervous