all our chapters are great!

Promote what you love--stop the ranking, hateful comments, and the bashing of others.

I'll second that!

I found my home with one of the so-called lower tiered groups. I am so happy. I was pleasantly surprised when I started rush because of rumors about the less desired houses. I found lots of similarities. I received my bid from a house that was not on my radar - and my roommate received one from one of the "IT" sororities. We have both had great experiences - both living in our beautiful houses, go to mixers and formals, made new friends and worked for great philanthropies. Most importantly, I have found a sisterhood. You will too! So forget looking at this crazy gossip. I think the few that are on here are digging themselves some deep holes they will not be able to get out of. Enjoy tonight and know tomorrow you will find your home.

Comparing your your life, or whatever else will only serve to make you unhappy.

When you compare yourself to others, you know all the details of your situation, but only the seemingly positive surface information about them. Don't hold yourself up to some outside vague standard of greatness. Judge your work by your principles and leave comparison out of the equation.

Accept the joy! Give it all you have. Comparison is not part of the equation.