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If you are lucky enough to get a bid from any house, you should consider everything YOU have experienced during recruitment week to make YOUR decision. You haven't even started yet - how about you take a breath and go in with a positive attitude looking to find your home. For all you know, ADPi might be the place you love or you may love another of the 11 other houses. Open minds bring the most happiness.

With the largest group of girls ever going through recruitment, it's best to keep an open mind for sure. Yes, the more girls there are the bigger the pledge classes will be, but the quality of girls is extremely good. Meaning everyone will have great GPAs, looks, connections, etc..... The houses are 12 strong and there will be a lot of cuts made by every house for sure. The "lower" sororities are doing great and have been making significant improvements over the last couple years and you may be surprised.

And why miss out on the fun social events, football games, frat parties because you have counted some houses out from the start. You're Greek or not, bottom line. Every house supports the others events and charities. I'd be in any sorority over missing out on such a wonderful and unbelievable college experience- nothing like it. Can't even imagine my life not being a part of this wonderful opportunity. Also, being an alum of any national sorority gives you such a great networking system in any city you end up in after graduation.

Recruitment will be exhausting and emotional. I would suggest not listening to what other girls think in your group. I didn't get my first choice and was so upset, but it has been the best experience EVER. I also realized that the house I wanted I probably wouldn't have felt as comfortable. It all works out for the best. You'll meet the most amazing girls in any of the sororities.

Excellent advice...