Getting blacklisted maybe

Maybe be open to the houses you have?

Are you a junior? Because if you are, that’s why.

This year had the most pnms ever. I’ve heard of lots of girls only getting like 3 or 4 houses back. Those houses are excited to talk to you though

If you got blacklisted, you would probably know some reasons why you would have been blacklisted. Maybe you’re asking because you know you’re guilty of mean girl behavior or other “morally questionable” things.

If not, then NO - you did not get blacklisted. You are just having what hundreds of other PNM’s are finding out is a NORMAL rush. Rush here is very competitive. It’s normal to have 1-4 houses left right now.

Your best chance to join a sorority is NOW. Stick with the chapters who are still interested in you and see if you can’t find your sisterhood. Every house is competitive! Every house is amazing! And every house you have will still continue to cut more girls throughout this week - so please be kind and gracious to the women who want to get to know you better.


Tons of posts on here about COB, but generally the houses you think are “top” are too big to even be eligible for COB. The houses that probably will be eligible are the ones you have left so might as well see if you can get into one now and start with the big pledge class! It’s more fun!

Pay attention to the good advice here!