adpi or kappa delta?

are equally bad, however Kappa Delta is absolutely invisible and mixes with the corps of cadets so that speaks for itself.

I wouldn't stay away from either, especially if those are the only ones that offer you bids. Don't be fooled into thinking that Rush is mutual selection--the sororities are picking you, not the other way around. It's better to be Greek than to be in some wanna-be sorority/spirit organization. KD are very sweet down to earth girls so if you like that, you'd fit in with them. ADPi has made major improvements and is visible on campus now so if you want to be active on campus, you'd fit in with them.

You "stay away" from anyone. If the sororities knew your true identity, they would cut you. R u d e.

you sound like someone who will be cut by everyone....our recruitment is competitive and you are lucky to get a bid from anyone

As a current member of a fraternity here at A&M I would definitely put KD significantly higher on a (ranking? scale?) compared to ADPi. It sounds as though ADPi has gotten better over the last year or two but they are still lacking compared to every single other house. I heard last year they had to bring in girls from other ADPi chapters (good ones) during rush. They also have a much worse reputation around campus than KD does. For example, I see guys wearing KD shirts around campus all the time. Maybe not as many as DDD or Kappa but still a lot. I pretty much never see any guys ever wearing ADP shirts. Just an observation I've had from going to school here for a few years. Bottom line though is go to whichever house you like/fit in the best that you get bid(s) from if you get any at all.

honestly, they're kind of the same

Both houses have nice girls..

Either house will bid you, I would go ADPI because they are getting stronger and becoming really involved, they will probably keep rising--at least above 2 or 3 houses, but KD is falling lower and lower each semester. ADPI has more potential at this moment

may get better, but will not pass that's my groups because if ADPi gets better, so will many of the other groups. The more girls that go through recruitment, the better all the houses will get.

I would rather be a geed than in either of those. It is SOCIAL SUICIDE.