conversations

Anything that'll make you stand out. Anything unique that you did or unique about yourself. Give them something to remember you by. Try your best to clue them in on who you are as a person. Instead of saying, "I was in student council" say "I was in student council because I loved being involved and having responsibilities.... Blah blah blah" you will have a very difficult time differentiating the houses after the first two days because it'll feel like you had the same conversation in each house and if it feels that way for you I can garuntee it also feels that way for the girls that rushed you! So even if you are talking about the silly usual things like major or classes or your summer add unique things to the discussion that show more of who you are rather than just what you've done. Overall, don't be stressed too much about conversation. It's better to talk about the normal boring stuff and flow well than try super hard to be unique and come off as a try hard! Let them know who you are and also get to know who they are. They will love you if you ask questions!!

Tbh I like day one convos to be laid back and relaxed! I don't really care if you were in student council ... Everyone does that in highschool. And if you start framing the convo like an interview (I love being involved, im super driven, etc) then it instantly turns awkward. this isn't the career fair. Day 1 convos should be light and surface level but still real at the same time. The best way to make an impression is to click with them. I talked to a girl for 5 minutes straight about our mutual love for corn dogs. Idk talk about your obsession with binge watching game of thrones!! girls in the house have to sit through SO many bland conversations every day about majors and career goals blah blah blahhhhhh. Once you find something in common the girl you talk to will enjoy the convo soooo much more and will probably rate you highly. The other days you can talk about more deep stuff if you want but authentic, genuine conversations are still EVERYTHING.

Be yourself and try to avoid any controversial topic areas