curious about phi mu

Not very outgoing group, have heard there's huge cliques (NOLA vs. everyone else). All the mean girls from my high school went there, but no biggie! I still know a few really sweet ones, so it really depends who you talk to. They will rush you with people you already know/your friends so you will feel comfortable there and will want to go because your friends are there...but, I've heard it's not as welcoming once bid day rolls around. Anyway, overall I think they're sweet, quiet, smart girls, not really the prettiest but make up for it with their classiness. Not known to party a lot. Keep an open mind going through rush and you should be fine.