The sororities aren’t THAT different.

If you’re actually just a pretty, fun, social girl it literally does not matter what sorority you join. You will still get invited to date events (for ANY frat!), you will make friends, you will get the same free alcohol at the same parties & tailgates, you will be at the same bars doing the same things & meeting the same people as KDs and Tri delts, you will have fun at your sororities’ date events, you will be FINE. I saw someone on here the other day saying that “lower tier sororities don’t reap the same social benefits” but I hate to burst some of y’all’s bubbles by telling everyone that they literally do. We all do the same things, some just have nicer houses and get “better exchanges” (but newsflash, most guys don’t even go to their exchanges after freshman year, you have a better chance meeting them at tailgates). If you’re actually pretty and interesting, no guy gives a damn what sorority you’re in. Maybe there will be the occasional backhanded compliment (for example, “but you’re so normal to be in ADPi” “you’re more fun than any DG I’ve ever met” “im surprised you’re in theta, you’re so pretty”), but who cares. You don’t have to rely on your sororities’ reputation if you have more than one brain cell and social skills, so join whatever sorority you think you will actually make friends in and not hate. Hope this helps!