not feeling it

It's definitely because of the suspension. With no meetings or sisterhood events, I totally understand how you could be feeling that way. It'll get better, I promise. Just please hang in there. It will be worth it:)

It's not the suspension. My over sized supposedly ranked # 1 or 2 is not living up to the hype. The so called sisterhood works if you came in with a already made posse, but trying to break into the cliques is so hard/ really impossible. These girls were more friendly at recruitment than on a daily basis.

I am finding this is more like middle school, than high school or college. I am giving it another couple of weeks but I see myself as walking out the door.

There are times when I am by myself at the house and nobody speaks to any of the pledges. The pledge class seems ok but word is spreading many of us are feeling this way. I am feeling more warmth from those girls at the other end of the row like Phi Mu, Delta Zeta/Gamma, Kappa Kappa Gamma, and so on.

Right now I am looking for other places on campus to connect. You are now alone.

not everyone finds their group of friends immediately, it took me over a year to find my place in my sorority.

It's been 4 years and I stayed because the sisterhood was for life and the connections were suppose to be the best. Stuck it out but no happier today then when I pledged. If you stay keep your feelings to yourself, your head down and the self absorbed members won't even notice. I am headed away from Louisiana hopefully the alumni group where I'm headed will be better.

I’m honestly so glad I’m not the only one who feels this way