advice!!! my chances with each sorority

That is a VERY difficult question to answer. Many sororities have a certain GPA that pnms must have in order to be considered, but it's different for every sorority. The only sorority I know of that's lenient with grades is alpha phi. However, since adpi is new they may be more forgiving as well. Every sorority has very, very specific requirements and some will give on one aspect for another aspect and it's difficult to tell when they will do that. For example, I know a girl who ended high school with a 4.0, was captain of two sports teams at her high school, did hours upon hours of community service, had great recommendations, did extra curriculars, and is gorgeous but still got cut from every sorority but one after round 2 of recruitment. Recruitment is wild, confusing, and can surprise you, you never know what will happen until it happens.

adpi is strict on grades, their nationals arent cutting corners around with their chapter here