exclusive.

Girls with autism often have trouble maintaining eye contact and making small talk. If she was looking away and couldn't carry on a conversation, she might have been perceived as being not interested in that house. So they cut her. I'm sure she didn't submit a doctor's note saying that she should be excused from conversation because of autism. I think you're being too hard on the actives. They only have a few minutes to make a decision and it's easy to cut people who seem disinterested in your house. Maybe if she makes some friends in houses who actually know her, she could go through informal and do better.