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This is another helpful post

Girls should read this not to freak them out but to prepare them.

Another good post for incoming girls.

This is a truthful picture of the process

Recruitment will be HOT, emotional and confusing. You will be going through this process with 1000 other girls who all want a bid from the same hand full of houses. It isn't enough to be a legacy anymore or beautiful or have money. Having gone through the process I cannot even explain why some houses asked me back and some didn't. I came here thinking I wanted a set house because I knew the name and thought I knew what it would be like. I was cut from that house on the third day and was in tears. I accepted a bid from a house I hadn't aspired to but that is well thought of. God is do good! Now I see why I didn't get the house I thought I wanted. Their members have totally different values and I would have hated it. I love my house and am sure I am in the best group for me. Above everything else, be open minded and things will work out.

So I was already nervous and this just made that worse but it's probably better to know now rather than later

Your time in each house is short so be as positive, talkative and friendly as
Ossicle. You will experience disappointment at some time during the week so be prepared and remain calm. Every day you come back your visit will be longer and more personal. It is a hot, tiring and emotional time but keep your mind on the prize which is a house of new friends who chose you from 1000 girls. No matter the letters on the door, that should make you know you are a special person to that group. Be grateful and excited to begin a journey to lifetime friendships.

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This is good to know too new girls