what kinds of things are talked about during rush?
by: On My WayHow do PNMs prepare for our house visits? What types of things do people talk about and any topics that are off limits that aren't obvious?
#1 by: Truth
Your visits are rushed and a little confusing because so many people are talking at once. There are no standard questions so just be yourself and see if you click with the girls your paired with. It's good to know about a houses philanthropic work etc. Don't talk about negatives about any houses this makes you look bad and word does get around to all the groups.
Commentby: TCU Mar 4, 2014 11:13:51 PM
If you understand what style of house you are entering, philanthropy connections and show interest in getting to know each other you will have hit every thing you can pre prepare for.
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#3 by: conversations
A lot of conversations on day one are "Where are you living?" "What's your major?" "What did you do last summer?" It'll seem boring an repetitive so if you connect with a girl on a different topic don't be afraid to change the conversation! I ended up talking with one girl about shots and how we were afraid of needles for maybe a good five minutes but it was one of the best conversations I had.
Anything you feel uncomfortable talking about you should avoid. The Rho Gams will also tell you to avoid talking about the 3 b's(booze, boys, bible) but I have heard of it coming up in conversations, ex one girl went on a mission trip, another girl's boyfriend went to tcu and was a friend of the girl in the chapter.
Day 1 and 2 might be a little awkward but by rounds 3 and 4 you will be more comfortable in the houses and have made connections by them. I always tell people that they will know the house for them when the conversations start flowing and you are sad to stop talking!
by: TCU insideMar 5, 2014 9:54:30 AM
by: RightMar 22, 2014 12:52:26 AM
Be prepared to have hundreds of girls talk at you throughout the day. There is no way to prepare. It is a little overwhelming but be friendly, be polite and be your real self.
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by: AprilMar 22, 2014 7:48:34 PM
Be prepared to be hot, have hundreds of girls yelling and clapping at you, random conversations and stress. One of the harder experiences you will go through but worth it. Be prepared by being open minded. If you think you will only accept one or two houses be ready for disappointment. Instead be your best to everyone.
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by: Information NowMar 23, 2014 11:59:21 PM
by: AnswerMay 6, 2014 11:28:38 AM
by: We are OneAug 15, 2014 2:06:04 PM
by: Fall down Mar 31, 2014 1:07:20 AM
by: SummertimeMay 6, 2014 5:54:51 PM
#5 by: Truth
Lots of "Where are from and what's your major" questions start things off. Then it could be anything under the sun. It is a bit luck of the draw if you get a good conversationalist to talk to. All you can do is be your authentic self so people can get to know you. Do not be shy or have an attitude. Your the one needing a bid not them and leadership talks too. Otherwise, there is no way to prepare.
by: GlamourMar 23, 2014 9:19:50 PM
by: Frog14Mar 24, 2014 2:05:25 PM
by: Frog Mar 25, 2014 7:51:24 PM
#6 by: Recruitment
If you do your research and know a houses philanthropic work and other facts that is a plus. Conversations are hectic and basic getting to know you questions followed by almost anything under the sun. Be outgoing, interested and friendly at every stop and you will find a new home.
by: Rose Mar 30, 2014 6:26:49 PM
by: ByeMay 8, 2014 11:59:35 PM
by: YesMay 12, 2014 7:54:35 PM
by: GreekMay 29, 2014 10:49:37 PM
I didnt research each groups philanthropy but still got my perfect house. I would wonder if most girls do this? We have a day where this is highlighted in every house anyway.
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by: too muchAug 7, 2014 12:23:01 PM
this might be seen as creepy unless you have a reason for it -- a family member in the hospital they support or worked as a counselor at a camp they support, etc.
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#7 by: Sunshine
It's not so much what is talked about as the way you interact. Do you smile, seem real, are you conceited or unopen because you think you belong in a certain house...YOU are the one who needs a bid not those already in a house. Remember this and do you best to connect with those that speak to you. It's not so much what is said in the short conversations as how.
by: <3Mar 31, 2014 5:19:28 PM
by: Recruit Apr 1, 2014 6:02:43 PM
by: --Aug 6, 2014 11:59:39 PM
If your are not respectful, interactive and positive it won't matter what comes out of your mouth.
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#9 by: Yeah
You can't really prepare for conversations. Other than the basic getting to know you questions you will be asked over and over the quick conversations can go anywhere. Smile and be polite to everyone. Be true to yourself. Stay away from topics like religion, politics and asking one group about another. Pretty much everything else is based on your likability and connection.
by: RecruitMay 1, 2014 11:15:08 PM
True but one tip is do some homework and know the house. KAT, GPB and XO are more interested in your academics. ZTA, DG and KKG want party girls. Who are you? Connect with like minded girls.
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by: Now DaysMay 8, 2014 1:49:43 PM
by: Purple hazeJun 9, 2014 10:36:14 AM
Keep things light and friendly and do stay away from controversial topics. Just try to be yourself during a unreal situation
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by: Froglet Mar 4, 2014 10:47:10 PM
Know a little about the house and let them know you are appreciative of their welcoming you.
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