advice this upcoming week

PNM's there is nothing like recruitment and I can tell you that no matter what you did to prepare the entire recruitment process is weird. That being said, take one day at a time and keep an open mind and trust the process. It's those who go into recruitment thinking they already know their place are the ones who end up at the end up the week without a house at all. Every house at tcu is great. All houses have a wide varieties of personalities and you will find your place wherever you end up. As far as sorority events, all houses participate in push week, all have formal, sorority houses, mixers, and resources to help you succeed in all aspects of college. If you allow yourself to have an open mind I promise you will find your home.